Tiger Balm Tales – vol. 3
Start from the beginning! Tiger Balm Tales – vol. 1, vol. 2
We saw the first glimpse of them from the plane window – the rigid, snowy Himalayan peaks. They were practically at eye level with our cruising altitude; you could reach out and touch them as if they were the pages of a book. They looked beautiful and scary at the same time. They were so cold, hard, and barren; as if they were saying “Leave us alone, you don’t belong here.” Yet at the same time, they were the fascinating peaks I had studied as a child, topped with snow that looked like an inviting dollop of Cool Whip.
It was a bit surreal; all of my planning was becoming a reality. As my dad excitedly peered out the window at the daunting peaks I asked him if he ever thought he’d see the Himalayas in his lifetime. He thought about it a bit and said “No. I don’t think I ever thought about it before. I’m sure I learned about Nepal as a kid, but I never thought beyond that I suppose.” I’m pretty sure at his elementary school, which was a one-room schoolhouse in the Nebraska countryside, no one ever thought they’d see the Himalayas. It was a marvelous feeling to know I was helping someone achieve goals they never knew existed; isn’t it wonderful when we push beyond our boundaries of possibility?
If I had been traveling solo as I normally do, I would have simply bought my flight ticket, arrived in Kathmandu, and then figured out the rest of the itinerary in a spontaneous manner. This lack of planning is the ‘badge’ of a backpacker – a carefree, go-where-the-wind takes-you attitude that comes from a fat passport. However I wasn’t a typical backpacker this trip; I was a daughter traveling with her father, and I knew I couldn’t be that blasé; I needed a plan prior to arriving.
Thamel is the backpacker/tourist area of Kathmandu. It is loud, chaotic, dirty, and positively terrifying when you step off the plane from a cushy Westernized country. There are plenty of people in Thamel who want to be your ‘friend’; it can often be a daunting experience as everyone tries to sell you some tour, gift, or drugs – you have no idea who to trust. However, when I volunteered in Nepal a year ago, I was able to form relationships with some great people whom I trusted; Giri was one of them. He was the younger brother of my past volunteer host, Didi. When I volunteered in the village of Puma, I stayed with Didi and her mother Ama. Whenever we had trouble communicating (which was often), Didi would get her cell phone and call her brother Giri and have him translate for us. That’s right – there was no indoor plumbing and sporadic electricity – but there’s always a cell phone not more than a few feet away! The last time I was in Kathmandu I met my cell phone translator in person and we formed a friendship and kept in touch over the last year while I was in Vietnam. Giri runs a travel company in Thamel so he was perfect for arranging our trip for us.
I had been working with Giri for the past couple of months putting together transportation and lodging for my father and me, as well as finding us an experienced guide and porter. This is where I became rather high maintenance – finding a guide. I needed to make sure that we had someone with experience, who knew about altitude sickness, was mature and responsible, and most importantly – a guide who was willing to take a 73-year-old over the Thorong La Pass.
The afternoon we arrived in Thamel, we met our guide, Bishnu; he was a perfect fit. Mature, good English, and many successful trips over the pass. Plus, he seemed to be social and have a really great sense of humor – something necessary if you are going to travel with someone for 21 days! Everything was set in motion and we’d be leaving the next morning for Lamjung district where the Annapurna circuit begins.
With the help of Giri and Bishnu, we laid out a loose trekking plan. For most people, the Annapurna circuit will take about 16 to 18 days to complete; we knew we weren’t most people. None of us (including himself) were really sure how well Dad would adapt to the hiking conditions, so we decided to not be in a hurry and practice the concept of slow travel. We’d take our time, enjoy the trek, and give ourselves 21 days to finish the circuit. Prior to this, the longest trek I had ever been on was 8 days at Kilimanjaro – this was the big leagues.
We laid out the following loose itinerary which included approximately 5 to 8 hours of trekking a day depending on our speed, with altitude changes of about 1,000 to 3,000 feet a day.
Day 1 – Kathmandu to Puma (the village where I volunteered last year)
Day 2 – Puma to Bhahundada
Day 3 – Bhahundada to Jagat
Day 4 – Jagat to Dharapani
Day 5 – Dharapani to Chame
Day 6 – Chame to Pisang
Day 7 – Pisang to Manang
Day 8 – Manang rest/acclimization day
Day 9 – Manang to Yak Kharka
Day 10 – Yak Kharka to Phedi or High Camp
Day 11 – High Camp to Muktinath (cross the pass at 5417 meters/17, 781 feet)
Day 12 – Muktinath to Kagbeni
Day 13 – Kagbeni to Marpha
Day 14 – Marpha to Ghasa
Day 15 – Ghasa to Tatopani
Day 16 – Tatopani day of rest at Hot Springs
Day 17 – Tatopani to Shikha
Day 18 – Shikha to Gorepani
Day 19 – Gorepani to Tikhedunga
Day 20 – Tikhedunga to Birethandi
Day 21 – Birethandi to Pokhara
Oh my – this was going to be a long time roughing it! However, it was also going to be a long time enjoying some of the most spectacular scenery the world has to offer, the friendliest culture, and the fresh air; oh yeah – and a long time spending time with my dad.
Planning a trip to Nepal? Please consider utilizing Giri’s services:
Giri Gurung
Nepal Tourism
www.nepaltourismtravels.com.np
Kathmandu Office – Nurshing Chowk, Thamel 17
+977-1-426-1114
Start at the beginning of the Tiger Balm Tales:
Vol. 1 – The Begining of a Nepal Trekking Plan
Vol. 2 – Preparing the Parents
By Mark H December 6, 2009 - 3:14 pm
Sounds a great trek walking around Annapurna. I remember being told in Nepal that “Didi” translates as “sister” or is a friendly term to address a woman of roughly your own age. I think most Nepalese names are fairly simple. Two of our sherpa leaders (not related) had names that equated to “first” (eldest) and “second” (second eldest). Very practical and simple names. Leaning out of the tent every morning half asleep, I also remember my three expressions with forgiveness for spelling – “namaste” (hello/good morning), “chini china” (no sugar in my tea), “dudh china” (no milk in my tea). Your trek will bring back some fond memories of this extraordinary Himalayan nation.
By Heather on her travels December 8, 2009 - 1:49 am
You’ve got it all figured out in best daughterly fashion. Having a guide you can get along with & is experienced must surely be one of the best way to guarantee an enjoyable and trouble free trip
By Barbara at Hole in the Donut Travels December 8, 2009 - 9:30 am
Again, I’m blown away by this journey of yours. Anxiously awaiting every installment! Can’t wait to read how the trekking goes and how your Dad handled it all.
By Sherry December 8, 2009 - 4:00 pm
@Mark – yes – Didi means elder daughter – and Ama means mother. When I stayed with this family a year ago I never learned their real names. They simply answered to Didi and Ama! It was such a small village that when I talked about Didi, they knew exactly who I was speaking about; even though there were many Didi’s. I suppose that most likely because I was the new caucasian in the village!
By Donna Hull December 8, 2009 - 7:10 pm
Sherry, I anxiously await every installment of your trip. I love the idea of traveling slowly. Why hurry through this kind of experience, even if you are capable of doing so?
By Peter West Carey December 8, 2009 - 7:18 pm
It is so awesome that you’re undertaking this trip! Congratulations on getting your Dad out there and seeing a wonderful slice of the world!
By Enn December 31, 2009 - 5:52 am
Hi there! I am interested in one of your blogs you said you volunteered in Nepal. I am planning a 6 month trip to Nepal and would like to volunteer and stay with a local family. Any advice or contacts? Thanks! N
By admin December 31, 2009 - 9:47 am
Yes! I volunteered through a local NGO called Hands for Help Nepal – http://handsforhelp.org.np/ – they were a good organization. Not many bells and whistles, you have to be a bit independent – but the experiences are really authentic and you can go rather deep into the culture which is what I was looking for! You can read a bit more about my experiences here:
https://www.ottsworld.com/blogs/hands-for-help-final-thoughts/
and I wrote about my whole volunteering experience here (called Dhat Bhat Days) – it has the last post first, so scroll to the end and read the posts from the bottom and then you’ll get my FULL experience as it was happening.
https://www.ottsworld.com/blogs/tag/dhal-bhat-days/
Please let me know if you have any questions – I”m happy to help and I”m still in touch with the people who run Hands for Help!
Good luck!
By madz March 25, 2014 - 2:18 pm
hi sheryl, good day, thanks for sharing your experiences, btw would you happen to share Giri and Didi’s contact info like emaila dd or cellphone number or facebook? i would like to ask some info bout the puma villagers on how can i help.. You may email me at [email protected].. thank You So much – Madz
By Sherry April 2, 2014 - 3:53 am
Here is Giri’s email – giri99grg@yahoo(dot)com
By Puru March 22, 2020 - 3:27 am
Thanks, fo sharing your story Sherry and Giri is great person.
By Suman Aryal August 5, 2023 - 1:52 am
Thanks, Sherry, for the memorable experience during our Annapurna trek. Giri is truly outstanding!!