I started my travels nearly a decade ago solo – and here I am – still solo and still loving it. I recently had a friend contact me about planning a trip with one of her friends to Ireland and she was lamenting about how hard it was to compromise when the two people had such different travel styles. “ It’s been an interesting exercise to jointly plan this trip. I can see how traveling solo has its benefits,” she commented to me.
I travel with people for about 50% of my travels; friends, family, nieces now tag along with me and I find it nice to have company, but once I’ve been on a trip with travel partners for a while, I feel the need to go out on my own. And for me there’s no better way to travel solo than on a road trip. Me, some beef jerky, and the open road; it’s the ultimate feeling of freedom to me.
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On my recent Northern California Road Trip I thought about all of the reasons why I love to road trip solo for those of you who are on the fence.
Why You Should Take a Solo Road Trip
10. You only have to wash the driver side windshield at the gas station.
Yes – I’m just that lazy.
9. You don’t have to compromise on what music you listen to.
I love listening to podcasts when I’m on a road trip, but if I want to listen to Johnny Cash, Bjork, or my mix of gospel songs – I can. And my favorite thing to listen to is my Spotify travel playlist!
8. You don’t have to share your beef jerky with anyone.
My favorite road trip snack is jerky – I have no idea why. I never eat it outside of a road trip for some reason. Maybe it’s my primal, solo instincts coming out. My friend Sarah gave me a little ‘solo travel care bag’ for my recent trip complete with jerky, some energy bars (for hangry moments), and some Hollister eye candy. He was the perfect companion – silent.
7. You can ask for directions any time you want to.
There’s no shame in asking for directions ladies – and when you are on a solo road trip – you can stop and ask as often as you want! And if you stop at a gas station to ask for directions, you can also buy yourself some more jerky. No one is judging.
6. You don’t have to worry about someone getting motion sick.
The route I drove on my Northern California road trip was a motion sickness nightmare; Highway 1 in California is full of twists, dips, and vomit-inducing turns. If I had a passenger with me, odds are they would’ve have been sick. Hell, if I had been the passenger I probably would have been sick. But when you are solo, the roads can be as roller coaster as ever but you won’t get sick because you are in control!
5. You can sing as loudly and badly as you want in the car by yourself.
There is an incredible freedom to sing at the top of your lungs. And it happens to be one of my tricks for staying awake if I get tired while driving solo! And I’m a terrible singer. No one needs to be subjected to my singing or lack of knowledge of lyrics…except for myself.
4. You can stop as many times as you want to take photos.
This is one of those that I probably overuse on my solo road trips. On Easter morning on my recent road trip I got up early to get a start on a long driving day and found that every 5 minutes I kept pulling over along the side of the road, or turning around and backtracking. I was going nowhere fast…but it didn’t matter as I was happy and that was all that mattered. And I got some stellar photos!
3. No back seat drivers!
I can be a Sunday driver, I can cut people off, I can speed, I can be lost, I can be throwing out f bombs at the awful drivers next to me…it doesn’t matter – there is no one to judge me or tell me what to do. The only thing in my back seat is more jerky.
2. You get your Jucy Camper Van bed all to yourself!
My Jucy Van slept 4 people, but since I was only one…I had he whole comfy bed to myself. I put up my window shades and snuggled under my comforter. The nights I slept in the van I slept better than any fancy hotel or house. I completely passed out and didn’t even wake up when other campers around me woke up and started moving around.
1. You feel empowered when you travel solo.
As you travel solo being totally responsible for yourself, it’s inevitable that you will discover just how capable you are.
There are few things in life that make you feel more empowered than blazing a trail all by yourself. It’s not always easy or always fun, but when you get through it – you feel on top of the world.
Figuring out how to use a new vehicle, sometimes driving on the other side of the road, new road rules in different countries, navigating by yourself in a foreign place…all of this is pretty damn hard. You feel amazing when you survive it all…and you will survive it – trust me. Each day on the trip I felt more and more confident.
One of the main reasons I travel solo is to know that I can. It’s a little test for me to remind myself that I’m capable on my own in any situation. Whenever I complete another solo road trip, I feel invincible!